Challenges and Blessings, A Long Post To Catch Up!

Tonight I am tired, I am calm, I am humbled but most of all I am blessed. In the last two weeks we have had 6 doctor's appointments, including 4 trips to Children's Hospital. Add in 8 therapy appointments, another sick child, homeschooling, a good friend of Sam's having major surgery and the day to day things that we all face, dinners, laundry, house cleaning and oh yeah...sleep...seem to be kinda neglected. I didn't have time to return calls to friends, I didn't have time to update the blog, I didn't have time to work on Sam's next fun unit study on the human body or put his books on tape, I didn't have time to read my book for book club or work on the afghan I am making for my wonderful daughter and a lot of those things are what helps me to maintain my calm and balance. I just sorta floated through these 2 weeks, trying to stay on schedule, trying to maintain some semblance of balance...but some weeks you just trudge through. What I was amazed at...was that I didn't feel out of control, I didn't feel overwhelmed...I was tired but at peace. So often people will leave comments on my blog about me being a super mom but honestly I'm just a regular person put into some challenging circumstances and doing the best I can to make it through. I am often asked how I make it through...I have only one answer...through faith alone.

If I would have sat and thought about these two weeks and all that has transpired it would be so very easy to fall into depression, bouts of anxiety or wasted time worrying or asking why?? All the stressful stuff I put in God's hands and I look for the blessings...because they are always there....sometimes you just have to look harder than others.

We began with a follow up visit to Sam's orthopedic surgeon. Sam is walking less, putting himself in traction or laying down more and we seem to be sliding backwards instead of making forward progress. His x-ray didn't seem to show any new bone growth. Sam's surgery was in December and by this time his doctor would have hoped to see some progress made in regrowing Sam's missing ball for his hip socket. He couldn't tell by the x-ray why Sam was having more pain and discomfort so he asked us to do a CT scan. I was hoping that Sam could do this without sedation...hope is good but sometimes reality wins out. Sam laid down on the CT table after yelling at it a couple of times and hitting it, letting everyone know that he wasn't happy to be there. We then attempted to get him settled but in true Sam style every time I told him to keep his feet still...he had to move them...he just had to. I tried reverse psychology and told him to move them, hoping he would stay still but that backfired too. We left with a return trip scheduled for the next day for a sedated CT.

I drove away with a heavy sigh knowing that sedation isn't always easy on Sam but we would get through this too. We returned in the morning. I really liked our anesthesiologist. He asked me if there was anything I needed to tell him about Sam. I started my speech, "Well, you should be aware that Sam has upper airway issues, pristine lower airways, so no asthma, but scaly, narrow upper airways. He has a floppy airway, an extra esophageal fold, an anatomy anomaly of 3 bronchial tubes instead of 2. He tends to overreact to medications so less is more in Sam's case, he will go into a shallow breathing pattern when sedated, steroids make him manic so if intubation is needed he will come out of sedation manic and he may come out manic without them, if Sam begins to have respiratory issues vaponephrine is the drug of choice...but other than that he is an amazing little man and the love of my life." He looked at me and said "Wow, you are an amazing medical mom." I quickly replied "Well, he needs me to be." He continued to compliment me, something I don't really handle well because I don't feel amazing or remarkable, I feel as I often say like a regular person who has been put into difficult situations and is trying to do the best I can. I have my good days but don't even think for a moment that I don't have my bad ones too.

The anesthesiologist decided to ask the "NO" boy what fragrance of anesthesia he liked. I always lets them give it a shot in case Sam decides to answer with a yes, but each one was greeted with a strong "NO". He then looked at me and said "I'm guessing I'm going to get a NO on every thing." I told him his guess was correct and Sam knows that he is going to have to ingest or breathe in one of those and he simply doesn't want to have anything to do with that. He asked me about positioning Sam, I told him it would be best to let him sit up, have him sit behind him, bring the mask around, Sam will look to me for reassurance and I will tell him to take a deep breath and that everything is okay. If he is going to be laid down, than place a rolled blanket at the base of his neck in order to fully open his airway.

Sam again yelled at the CT table and let it know that he was not happy to see it but then he climbed on. I took off his shoes, the anesthesiologist sat behind Sam and as he brought the mask around Sam immediately looked to me with wide, panicked eyes. I smiled and told him he was alright, go ahead and take a deep breath and I am right here with you, I'm always here with you. Sam quickly drifted off to sleep and I left the room to let them finish with the CT scan. They wheeled Sam to the recovery area. Most kids with a short blast would have slept for about 5-10 minutes...45 minutes later Sam woke up as the nurse began to remove the leads on his chest. He popped up like a jack in the box and said "Mom, go home, eat." I told him to relax until we brought the table down and I offered him some water to drink. Now for the real test...I asked him "Sam, have I told you lately...", he answered immediately "I love you" and I told him "I love you too". "Let's go home and get something to eat."

We also visited the dentist and Sam's pulmonologist, she looked almost giddy as I told her Sam was being homeschooled. Sam's pulmonologist is extremely supportive of Sam being homeschooled because he gets sick less often and she isn't required to find the magic pill that will keep Sam from going into respiratory distress. Believe me, we have tried many and I don't think she will ever forget when I brought Sam in to see his pediatrician after he had taken a preventative steroid and inhaled medication. Sam was fully manic, running around the office, pulling things off the wall, kicking, babbling incoherently...a completely different child. It took two of us to bring him there since he wouldn't keep his seat belt on and kept trying to escape from the car. I calmly explained to the pediatrician that if they wanted Sam to continue taking these medications I had his suitcase in the car and he could move in with him until they got this worked out. He quickly called Sam's pulmonologist as I waited to come up with a better plan.

Sam's dentist was wonderful again...see another blessing!! He got more done with Sam than he hoped and Sam gave him a hug when he left.

We finished all the home test kits but need to take Sam to the hospital for the lab work next week. Sam is obviously in pain since he won't walk far, asks for his wheelchair and puts himself into traction but Sam doesn't complain, he rarely cries and he faces each day with a smile. His frustration level is lower but with that said he continues to plug away at his NACD program and his academics. This is a blessing!! I remember a time when Sam would have been more than happy to throw a complete fit because he felt rushed or our time frames were shorter. It used to take me a long time just getting him interested in doing something. The level of intensity to teach Sam was often beyond my ability...but now he just jumped in, complained at times...but that wouldn't be Sam if he didn't complain and we completed as much as we could in between all the appointments.

So what is Sam working on??? He is writing his letters with www.thetvteacher.com and he absolutely loves this program. Sam was recently found to be cross dominant. NACD does not like to use the word dyslexic because it groups many different learning disabilities under one umbrella. I have always felt that Sam exhibited many of the same issues that Ben has so I wasn't surprised. With that said, like Ben...Sam will struggle with reading and writing. Sam is also working on his writing with his Ipad using the Pocket Phonics app and the Letter Writer app. Sam is writing notes to his Dad, brother and sister and he is writing sentences about pictures of him. Sam at this point is tracing dotted letters. He is not at the point of writing a requested letter freehand. When he tries we often see him starting in the wrong area or making the letter in the wrong direction.

I determine many of Sam's fun unit studies using www.brainpopjr.com. These are short animated videos that teach the educational elements covered in a 1st-3rd grade curriculum. If Sam is interested in the topic, he is engaged in the video. Here is Sam watching the BrainPop video Exercise. I look for eye contact, acknowledgement of auditory cues and his overall attention span.

When I see Sam is interested in a topic we go to the library for books. We look up videos on Netflix or www.cosmeo.com. We do projects related to the topic and we have fun expanding on what the BrainPop video covered. We are finishing animal classifications and habitats and will be working on the Human Body next.

Math has always been a challenge with Sam. For the longest time he didn't like to count, didn't like to identify numbers and certainly didn't want to work with numbers. I worked with a lot of manipulatives, finding math in everyday situations (like # of plates needed to set the table) (how many grapes do you want to eat?) (Give Buddy 3 treats, he only ate 2, how many are left?) You get the idea. We then used large manipulatives and magnets for beginning addition. Sam has a one to one correspondence issue. His finger moves faster than his brain. So using something large to move or the resistance of the magnet allowed his brain to catch up. We now use the Kid Calc app on the Ipad and we do what NACD refers to as modular math. Here is a sample page and a couple of videos showing Sam doing his math.

We have a lot of work to do on math yet but I'm encouraged that he is making progress. Wait...that's another blessing!

To begin working on Sam's cross dominance issue we are working on his visual processing and also eye exercises such as hitting a ball extended on a string. Sam likes to hit it forward and back but struggles when the ball goes from side to side. We also use targets for the nerf gun and have him play basketball.

I use a button schedule for Sam to help guide him through his day. I put the buttons in a container, shake them up and then have him choose it and match it to the activity. The buttons are also part of a work box system to help organize Sam's materials.

For reading I use a variety of books and approaches. Due to Sam's cross dominance he requires a larger font and fewer words on a page in order to be successful at reading. Soooo...that made finding the right books difficult. Sam likes Arthur chapter books but the font is smaller and I need to blow these up on a copier to make them work for Sam. I have found a couple series of Scholastic books that work very well for Sam. The first is Discovering My World which corresponds nicely with the BrainPop videos.

I like these books because they have a single line of text on each page in a large font. The pictures are large and well done. The topics are interesting and engaging without going overboard. The books are written at about a second-third grade level and they teach the child about 5 major points on each topic.

My next favorite is the Welcome Books. These books also have large and interesting photos. The text is large and there is only a couple of sentences on each page.

I was recently excited to find another line of books at our library that also correspond well with the BrainPop video series. These are Lightening Bolt books.

They have vivid pictures, large font and just a few sentences per page. These are great books to also work on speech/language as you talk about the pictures shown.

I also record books on tape for Sam, again I Sammy-ize it. I use Henry and Mudge books and change the characters to Sam and Buddy. This way I don't need to make up stories I can just use the Henry and Mudge stories but peak Sam's interest by bringing him into the story.

Sam's absolute favorite books continue to be...books about Sam, go figure. NACD refers to these as Experience Books. The Experience Book pictured below is part of a series of books I put together regarding Sam's road trip this summer. I also use this same format to put review books together for Sam. Right now I am working on his animal classification and habitat book, using a single page for each animal and 5 good points to know about that animal. These books require some computer savy but they are relatively inexpensive to put together. I use 65 lb. cover stock, print the pictures and text from my computer and then put the pages into 8x8 scrapbook filler sheets. You can often buy these in lots inexpensively on Ebay. I laminate the front and back cover, punch holes and secure the pages together with pipe cleaners. Sam loves to read books about himself and his adventures. These books also allow him to share with his friends and family details about his trips. He reads the text and then can talk about the pictures. It has always been difficult for Sam to share because of his delayed speech.

To check Sam's reading comprehension we often play a treasure hunt game. I use old containers and hide messages through out the house. In Sam's case the treasure hunt normally leads him to a favorite snack. We work on Sam's fine motor skills as he opens the different types of containers (jars, toothbrush holder, travel soap dish, travel shampoo bottle...). He then reads the clue and has to follow the instruction. I try not to assist with the reading beyond pointing to the words or having him read it a 2nd or 3rd time. Doing something like this makes reading go from word identification to something more functional. He needs to read, think about it, remember it and act on it. Some days our treasure hunt goes quickly and others he struggles with comprehension and memory but he always loves to play.

I tend to use a variety of grade level books to get ideas. Sam isn't a huge fan of worksheets so I try to incorporate the ideas in ways that are more Sam friendly. Here are some of the books I browse for ideas.

Here is one of the reading ideas from the book. They had a printed story and questions.

I then take this idea and Sammy-ize it. Yep, that's my technical terminology. So I take the same story but make it about Sam and Buddy, which Sam would rather read about. I write it out on a white board (much more Sam friendly than paper and it allows me to increase the text size and spacing) and I make the questions multiple choice, circle the answer and verbal. Even though Sam struggles with writing it doesn't mean he is unable to do this type of work, it just has to be modified to work for him. So here is Sam's version of the same thing.

Here is another example of working with the beginning sounds of words. The book showed this idea.

And then I Sammy-ize it by putting it on a white board and using magnets that Sam can move to complete the words. So it looks like this:

Sam loves magnets and we remove the task of writing by using the magnetic letters instead.

In spelling we work on spelling things that are important to Sam, like his name. I now use a magnetic picture holder to attach pictures of family members, our house (so Sam can do our address), and items he would like to buy at the store so he can work on a shopping list.

One of my favorite science books because of all the cool projects and the fact that I can usually Sammy-ize them is this one:

We also do fun unit study's like "From Grub to Ladybug". Sam liked watching his ladybugs go from a grub to a chrysalis to a ladybug. We have also done the same with butterflies and will work on creating and observing an ant farm next.

I picked up these kits on sale at Shopko, all of them were less than $5.00 each. The really cool part of Ladybug land was that the top was a magnifying glass so you could see the grubs and lady bugs up close and personal.

I struggled for a long time with art projects for Sam because of his sensory issues he didn't like anything that got him dirty or was sticky or required glue or a scissors. I now found a cool little device called the Crayola Cutter which allows Sam to cut much the same way he would use a pencil or marker. After much work on sensory issues Sam has now become comfortable with paint and play dough. He enjoys creating his own masterpieces, telling me what they are and then displaying them on the refrigerator. Here is Sam creating.

And here is Sam showing his wonderful creation called "Beautiful Waterfall".

Now we also do field trips. Since September we have gone to Discovery World museum in Milwaukee. Sam loved how the water entered into the aquarium area.

He also loved to watch the jellyfish and didn't seem to appreciate my asking him where SpongeBob and Patrick were?

He really liked the same exact area that Ben was always fascinated by...the pulley and lever area. He got a pretty good workout lifting himself up in this chair. Not easy with Sam's low tone.

He also liked the atomic reactor area. I was so excited to see him listen to the computer and press the button when they told him to. Listening is a skill we are still working on.

Sam's absolute favorite part was of course eating lunch at the top of the museum on the deck overlooking Milwaukee and Lake Michigan.

Through our family support program we have a membership to the Milwaukee County Zoo so Sam can see his beloved otters. Of all the animals at the zoo, Sam is fascinated by the otters. Considering how much they move, swim and dive...I can understand his fascination.

He could sit there all day if you let him...

but we had other things to see, animals to classify and habitats to check out. Another fun area for Sam was of course...the zoo train ride.

He smiled from ear to ear again on this ride.

Sam loved the seal and sea lion show.

The show is entertaining and they keep things moving which helps to keep Sam interested.

Sam took this picture, he might just be a budding photographer.

Our final stop was at the butterfly pavilion. Unfortunately by this time Sam's hip was beginning to hurt and we had to end our day, head out to the car and allow Sam about 15 minutes to stretch out in the back seat before he was able to sit upright, put on his seatbelt and head back home.

We also purchased season tickets through our homeschool group to see the theater productions put on by First Stage Children's Theater. Our first play was Seussical and Sam loved it.

So...in between the medical stuff we have been keeping busy. Another blessing that has come our way through our Family Support program is a respite provider hired through College Nannies and Tutors. A couple of weeks ago a wonderful UWM student named Makenzie began taking Sam out and about around the community to give both he and I a much needed break. The break allows me to prepare Sam's homeschool program, run errands or just relax and it allows Sam to engage and have fun with someone besides Mom. Makenzie is studying to be a school psychologist and loves spending time with children with special needs. Sam really likes Makenzie and always looks forward to when she is coming. They have gone to the playground, on a hike, bowling, playing basketball and swimming at the YMCA, to the library and enjoyed the Port Washington marina. Makenzie comes 3 days a week for about 3 hours each time. I am so thankful that our wonderful case manager arranged this for us and that College Nannies and Tutors was able to find a perfect match for Sam and our family.

Sooooo, I have to say again...yes we have challenges and more than I thought we ever would but we also have blessings and for that I am thankful. Just the fact that after so many years Sam is finally working with me and we are enjoying his journey in learning together...that is a huge blessing for both of us. For my friends with children with special needs I hope I have given you some ideas and please, please feel free to ask me questions. I enjoy hearing from everyone!!

A few years' experience will convince us that those things which at the time they happened we regarded as our greatest misfortunes have proved our greatest blessings.
George Mason

The Kindness of Strangers!

A while back I told everyone about a geography project Danielle and I came up with for Sam while he recuperates and we asked that people send Sam a letter or card and tell him about yourself and where you live. We would then use a combination of a globe and Google Earth to find them and learn more about their area while having fun and teaching Sam great geography lessons. Sam also got a talking globe as a Christmas present from his Aunts which makes this project even more fun.

Soooo, I wasn't sure what to expect...

And then...

the letters and cards began to come in...

Port Washington, WI with letters from children and friends of Possibility Playground

Show Low, AZ with a beautiful magazine showing pictures of Arizona

a post card from New Orleans, LA

a Christmas card and note from Middleboro, MA

a letter from Ringgold, GA

a letter from Butler, MO

a card and brownies from Guam

a post card from Peoria, AZ

a Christmas card and letter from Glenview, IL

pictures and a letter from Clinton, TN

a Christmas card and letter from Lincolnshire, IL

a Christmas card and letter from Port Washington, WI

a card and letter from Dixon, MO

a card from St. Louis, MO

a card from Kildeer, IL

a letter from Houston, TX

a card and letter from Ingleside, IL

another card from Ingleside, IL

a card from Saukville, WI

a card from Fredonia, WI

a card and ornament from Orlando, FL

a postcard from New York City, NY

a card from Germantown, WI

a funny letter from 3 dogs in Lake Bluff, IL

a funny Christmas card and stickers from Port Washington, WI

a Christmas card and picture from Cedarburg, WI

a post card from Toronto, Canada

a Christmas card from the Mississippi Gulf Coast

a post card of Lambeau Field in Green Bay, WI

a card from Port Washington, WI

a card and gift from Mequon, WI

a letter from Ras Tanura, Saudia Arabia

a letter and pictures from Cambridge, WI

a letter from Mundelein, IL

a funny card from N.R.H. Texas

a letter, calendar and sticker book from New Zealand

a card from Port Washington, WI

a post card from the Philippines

a post card of Graceland from Orlando, FL

a letter from Mundelein, IL

a post card from New Orleans, LA

a Christmas card from Fort Lauderdale, FL

a letter from Saint Thomas, MO

a Christmas card from Rochelle, IL

a Christmas card and note from Vanndale, AR

a Christmas card and letter from Fort Worth, TX

a Christmas card and note from San Mateo, CA

...and they continue to come in.

WOW...Sam and I are both amazed and touched by this outpouring of kindness. Spending 6 to 8 weeks in a body brace is made so much easier when you can look forward to bringing in the mail each day and seeing all the cards and letters...and this doesn't include our family Christmas cards of which over 80+ cards came in.

I continue to be inspired by the notes and letters and the sheer kindness of people who are taking time to write to Sam, a boy they have never met and me, a woman who writes about her life and journey on a blog that was started on a whim. When I started this blog it was partly therapeutic and partly an attempt to test my writing skills to see if I could pursue a career in writing. I never anticipated the response I would have from family, friends and strangers from around the globe that would touch my heart and keep me going, writing and sharing my thoughts, feelings and journey on a regular basis. God bless all of you for inspiring me.

Sam loves the postcards and pictures and he is a wee bit addicted to the singing cards. I want to share how we work with each letter/card/postcard. As they come in each day I share the joy of opening and seeing where they are from with Sam. I read each card and note and then add them to our file. Each day we bring out a card/letter and we look and talk about the card, we look at the return address and find it through Google Earth, then we locate it again on our regular globe and apply a raised dot. We watch the videos on Brain Pop Jr. regarding reading maps and geography and work on the projects there. We also review some common globe terms: equator, north pole, south pole, compass, northern hemisphere, southern hemipshere, continent, country, state, city, capitol, ocean, river, lake, mountains, deserts, longitude and latitude. We look to see how far the letter has come by measuring with our globe tape (660 miles per inch) and we talk about if Sam has ever been there. I work with Sam to help him read the letter and then we look at the pictures included or find pictures of the area on Google Earth or Google. We also try to figure out the weather in the area and compare it to ours. We are just starting to send return notes to those that have provided a return address. Sam is just starting to learn how to type so I help him type at least a couple words on each reply and then Sam signs his name. Added to this each day are our math exercises, a little writing, word review and teaching new words, computer games, therapeutic exercises and the Ipad.

Now...honestly...if we get all that done, it's a really good day and Sam was feeling good and open to learning. There are some days when Sam's interest is not there and we move on to something else or we have an abbreviated school day. With Sam's current situation it is even harder to figure out where he is at and don't think for a minute that Sam wouldn't play up his situation. It's a balancing act to figure out what is a medical issue and what is Sam trying to work his way out of something. This week my goal has been to limit the TV unless he wants to watch Brain Pop videos and to get him re-engaged in puzzles and games, reading and talking...basically learning. We have had good days and bad due to the coughing issues he continues to have and his inability to tell me if he has pain. So much with Sam feels like a guessing game and I hope and pray I am guessing correctly.

My back has added a new dimension into this journey also. I have two ruptured discs in my lower back and I had hoped by this point in my life they had fused themselves since my back issues began when I was in my 20's. My attempting to move and re-position Sam which I equate to moving 106 lbs. of jello is slowly taking it's toll. My morning back ache doesn't always go away and the tinges of severe back pain have been more frequent. 3 weeks in...only 3 to 5 more to go. Argh!!!

Praying that the Lord decides that my back going out at this point would not be such a great idea or a new twist in our journey that needs to be taken. I guess I could use this as leverage to get Jeff to go to church...always looking at my options.

Each day it is fun to re-read a letter and learn about the area the person lives in...kinda makes me want to plan the next road trip. Ahhh...I should probably hold off on that for a while, you know...get Sam through this first...but it doesn't hurt to dream. I have enjoyed seeing and learning about parts of the world I may never get to, sorry Helen and Debra...I'm thinking Guam might be a stretch for a road trip and dreaming about those I may want to travel to some day. I am touched by the kind letters from people of every age, even a gentleman in his 80's sent Sam a card and note...it just makes you feel like there is still a lot of good people in this world.

If you haven't joined the effort, please send a card/letter or postcard to Sam Mayer at 679 Kara Road, Grafton WI 53024. If possible write or type in a larger font and tell Sam about yourself and where you live. He loves pictures and please include your return address.

Thank you all and I hope God blessed your Christmas and will continue to bless your families in the new year!!!!

Something for Sammy!

Soooooo, in one of my previous posts I talked about the Bummer Bear, www.bummerbears.com. Well, yesterday Sam's Bummer Bear arrived and he's PERFECT. He has stitches along his left thigh and he's wearing a body brace just like Sam will have.

The bear will go into surgery with Sam and then will come out of surgery with his brace on, just like Sam. I will also use the bear/brace as a visual to explain different procedures to Sam. Jenny Robbins, CEO and Den Mother for Bummer Bears is wonderful to work with and we problem solved together as they created this custom special order bear for Sam. Thanks Jenny and everyone at Bummer Bears, you outdid yourselves!!

While Sam is recuperating I need to continue to fill his mind and world with experiences to keep him engaged and learning. Sam's school is working on skyping Sam into his music class and the regular classroom to give Sam a chance to participate with his classmates. His classmates have been wonderful about creating special projects for Sam and sending him get well cards. The school is also supporting an online membership to www.brainpopjr.com which is a great website that provides short animated films on the curriculum Sam would be covering in school. I add books and projects to these short clips to create fun unit studies for Sam.

Another idea Danielle and I came up with will help Sam work on his reading and geography. We are asking people to send a postcard, letter or card to Sam (age 10) as he recuperates from hip surgery due to Perthes and hip dysplasia. Please type in an easy to read larger font (Size 16-18) so Sam and I can read them together. Tell us about you and where you live. Sam and I will use Google Earth to pinpoint your location, learn about the weather you are having and view photos of your area. If you have never heard of or experienced Google Earth, www.googleearth.com check it out. This is a wonderful way to learn geography and it allows you to fly all over the world from your computer. Please pass on this information to your friends and family. We want to help Sam receive cards from all over the globe so he can read, research and learn about different areas of the world. Please send your card to:

Sam Mayer

679 Kara Road

Grafton, WI 53024

Thank you for your help with this!

Oh...and one more thing...if you happen to know Oprah Winfrey or someone else who would like to pick up Sam and I from the hospital, put us on a personal jet and fly us someplace warm to recuperate for 2 + months...that would be great too!!! Hee Hee!

Nature Unit Studies, the Good, the Amazing & the Ugly

Everyone knows summer has become my favorite season...because in our lives that beautiful, fabulous sunshine means Sam is healthy.

I love Fall for the change of the seasons, the start of sweater weather, the crispness of the air, the tumble of the beautifully colored leaves and the final days of warm sunshine.

Winter is beautiful...the way the snow paints the landscape and decorates the trees. I love making snowmen and snow angels, taking walks in the falling snow and just watching it snow out the window while I snuggle under a warm blanket with Sam.

And Spring, when the leaves come back on the trees, the sun gets warmer and the brown trees and grass begin to take on fresh color. The start of the growing season.

Do you remember from the planting fun unit study, those cute little plants Sam is holding above? Well here is what Sam's garden looks like now.

Look at the size of those bean plants and we have harvested and eaten many a fresh bean already. Yummy!

Sam's zucchini plants have some of the biggest leaves and quickly overtook the space around them. We will be picking our first zucchini's later this week.

Now nature and I usually do get along well together. However, this last week I had a couple close encounters with nature that will stay with me for quite some time.

The first one was when our ever elusive white ghost decided to run through the yard while I watered my flowers. It is one thing to see a brown deer run through, but an albino deer really gets your attention. In Wisconsin we have a larger than normal albino deer population. These albino deer are protected and are truly a site to behold. Check out this link to learn and see more about these beautiful animals:

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/video/flv/generic.html?s=inwi10s22a3q81f

Now my next encounter was, well...I think you just have to see it to believe it.

Yep, that's right...we had a 2 foot snapping turtle decide to take up residence in our garage. This turtle came complete with pond scum, sufficient moss build up, leech friends and the worse odor you can imagine. It looked like some type of prehistoric animal, kind of majestic and regal in it's own way but at the same time kinda smelly, really ugly and desperately in need of a good pedicure.

Needless to say my red Christmas Ribbon had to be thrown away after getting "turtle poo" on it. We had hoped that the turtle would leave just as it had come but it seemed to have a different idea, so some gentle persuasion with a shovel got it moving along. After looking up snapping turtles so I could correctly identify it, I learned that they come out of the swamps in late June and early July to lay their eggs. Oh yeah...so I'm guessing that this was a female turtle, I really wasn't interested in turning it over to check it out but looking at it's wide back end I'm guessing it wanted to lay some eggs. Okay, now I'm not saying that all females have wide back ends...let's just not go there.

During the gentle persuasion we had to remove Sam from the garage since he got agitated when the turtle got agitated. He hates to see anyone or anything get upset. And believe me the snapping and hissing led me to believe the turtle was not happy with me. Once I got it outside the garage I asked Danielle to close the garage door and then began to video tape it's return to the wild.

Never a dull moment on the Mayer homestead. Happy Trails!!

Time For A Planting Fun Unit Study

Spring is a great time of the year to teach about how things grow. Because my husband and older son are "wanna be" farmers I figured this would be a good unit study for Sam. Of course he would have been much more interested if I had a big ole John Deere tractor and was planting the back 40 but I decided to downsize a bit.

We started with some books about how plants grow. I like to find a book at Sam's reading level and then a few that I can read to him. My trick for finding books is to go on Amazon.com and look up the books because you can usually view a few pages online, then I order them through our local library system. For Sam to read we got the Rookie Read-About Science book, "From Seed to Plant". Lots of pictures, nice size text and at about a level 2 to 3. I chose a Life Science book called "Food from the Sun" and for fun a Cat in the Hat book, "Oh Say Can You Seed" a book about flowering plants.

We also played a game on the computer from the science kids website http://www.sciencekids.co.nz/gamesactivities/plantsgrow.html. You have to provide water and heat to help your flower grow. Sam thought it was fun. In Sam's PowerPoint presentations that review his reading words each day we reviewed the parts of a plant as well as what is needed to make a plant grow. We also constructed the parts of the plant with construction paper on the refrigerator and he could match the labels next to each one.

We decided to purchase a lighting unit (the Hydrofarm Jump Start) that we could put in the basement to help grow our plants from seed to a large enough size for planting outdoors. Here is Sam unpacking and helping me to assemble this unit.

After we had it assembled we took it downstairs and headed to the store to pick out our seeds and pick up a seedling tray. Well, getting the seedling tray was easy but once we got to the seed packets and there were probably about a hundred of them Sam's interest began to fade. I really can't blame him, trying to locate the bean seeds and then deciding which of the 8 type was the one we wanted was asking a lot for one of my boys, who are known to have the attention span of a flea. Sam decided it was time to do "meet and greets" with anyone walking into the store while I picked out the packets. We got 6 different types of seeds and I got to meet 4 more members of our community.

We headed home and I quickly read through the directions for the seed tray. My first mistake. This particular tray had the little compressed pellets that you add water to and they expand. Sam was fascinated by them, so much so he tried to feed one to Buddy and then figured out you could throw them. Luckily Buddy wasn't interested in eating the pellet and I located all of the missing ones from the tray. We took the tray outside to add the water since I'm well aware of Sam's ability to aim in more ways than one. He turned on the water and filled his little sprinkling can and after first watering Buddy I encouraged him to put the rest of the water on the pellets. This was when my first mistake came back to haunt me. The pellets appear to have to be in the right position to expand correctly. A few were turned sideways and I quickly learned it was difficult, maybe even somewhat impossible to get those pellets to turn after the expansion process but we managed to soften them up a bit and somewhat correct the problem. Here's Sam watering the pellets and I'm sure you can now see why I chose to do this outside on the driveway, but I do have to comment on how I wish I could bend like that. I later encouraged him to bend at the knees which he promptly bent and then went back to the same position.


We then went on to plant the seeds. I took a few videos for your enjoyment!

And of course, he promptly turned the video off! Ahh, never a dull moment with Sam!!

We took our newly planted seed tray down to the basement to put under the lights. I had to chuckle because I think Sam thought the plants grew as soon as you put them under the lights because I found him sitting by the tray watching and sometimes he would say "Ready".

I went back to one of our books and explained the process again and we had a lot of fun each day going downstairs to turn on the light and check on the progress. When the seeds began to break through Sam said, "Here they come." We even used the tape measure to see how big they were getting.

Sam was so excited and amazed at how big his plants grew. We then prepared one of our Earth Boxes to plant his seedlings outside. This is my first year trying an Earth Box and so far Sam likes to fill the water tube each day. The Earth Box is a maintenance-free, award-winning, high-tech growing system that controls soil conditions, eliminates guesswork and more than doubles the yield of a conventional garden…with less fertilizer, less water and virtually no effort! I really like the last part, especially after having weeded a garden each summer. For more information on the Earth Box go to http://www.earthbox.com/.

Sam also helped me clean up the flower box and flower beds. As we began to work on one of the flower beds, Sam told me "Bunnies, Mom". I said, "Where do you see bunnies?". He said, "Right there, under". And here is what Sam found under one of my perennials.

Look closer!!! There were actually five bunnies nesting under my plant.

Sam and I checked on them each day and we were lucky enough to see them start to venture out on their own!




I thought the plants and the rabbits were a great way to talk about Spring with Sam. He and I are trying to get a picture of our albino deer that lives in the forest surrounding our house and yes, that will be another unit study!! Have a great Spring!!!!